My husband's job has sucked all the life out of him Often, judgments aboutt one's body get in the way of sexual pleasure and freedom. Read Cruise Control by Robert Weiss. If you've been drinking regularly and haven't been able get into the mood unless you've had a few drinks, then at first sobersex is most likely going to seem boring or awkward. Anyway, it's intoxicating, in and of itself, without even needing the help of chemicals.
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Are you concerned about the size of your penis? Also in this section. If you believe him that it's non-physical - and that's something you're ok with - well then that's grand. Expect that in the beginning you're going to be uncomfortable. An additional reason gay men drink is often because of internalised homophobia; by that, I mean shame and guilt about being sexual with other men. You need to look after yourself - but hopefully you can find the strength and compassion to look after him too.
Any person who has been single in the last 10 years will tell you that: I also recommend you stop sex altogether with anyone but your new boyfriend. Refrain from looking at pornography. Hold the front page. You need to be prepared to experience these reactions and be patient with yourself while you get past them. Should I still be with him?