Your gender:. If you give gay men an effortless way to hunt for sex on-the-go, everywhere they go, all the time, they are going to go for it. Admittance to these clubs requires two things: Shopping center toilets in Guam or Manila? You cruise on the dance floor — backrooms are where the cruising takes you.
If you don't like him romantically, you can just tell him.
Approach guys that interest you. Unlike what you may have seen on Queer as Folkthe overwhelming majority of gay bars don't have backrooms and hallways where wild orgies are taking place. Then you have to approach him and strike up a conversation. Newsletters are the new newsletters.
Once he's in your own home environment, you'll both feel more comfortable and you can let the seduction begin.